It was a simple briefing that posed a simple question: “What have you done with your life?” Now “Life” was to symbolize the “United States Air Force” not life in general, but as the question was discussed my mind began to wonder.
I have been very fortunate. I grew up in the middle of nowhere Idaho, where the majority of folks end up going nowhere, and they are quite content with that. I had known from a very young age that I wasn’t going to fall into the evilness of small town life only to wind up old, drunk and disgruntled. No, I wanted to leave and leave as soon as humanly possible, and that’s just what I did.
I never regretted leaving, I missed family and friends and I missed my high-school sweetheart, but it wasn’t long before she was at my side again and we were off on one heck of an adventure. By virtue of being in the United States Air Force I have been fortunate enough to experience more than her, some good and some not as good. But together we have not only seen, but done a lot. We are extremely lucky.
A bucket list if you will, that has already been completed, I never dreamt that by the time I had turned thirty-seven I would have accomplished half of this, much less all of it. My completed bucket-list, or at least the highlights of what has been an amazing ride to this point:
Become part of something bigger then yourself – Done
Learn then master more than one trade – Done
Visit Baltimore in the winter but then stay for the suffocating summer – Done
Spend four days in an Army hospital (alone) with pneumonia – Done
Catch a Baseball game at Camden Yards – Done
Witness the great Cal Ripken hit a home-run – Done
Visit Philadelphia — Done
Catch a Baseball game at the old Veterans Stadium – Done
Talk to Barry Bonds during batting practice – Done
Visit Washington D.C. and the White House — Done
Watch the guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier — Done
Feel the passion and heroics that spill from the Vietnam Memorial Wall — Done
Visit N.Y. City — Done
Visit New Jersey — Done (Not much of a highlight)
At the age of 18 drive across the United States alone – Done
Live in Georgia – Done
Visit Charleston – Done
Visit Myrtle Beach, experience the pain of pulling a mother’s child that had drowned out of the water – Done
Spend a week site seeing in Georgia/South Carolina – Done
Visit Alabama — Done
Enjoy Mardi Gras — Done
Catch a baseball game at Turner Field – Done
Talk to Chipper Jones at a Pizza Hut after a Macon Braves game – Done
Fly to Rwanda to aid in the effort to feed those that were starving to death – Done
Shake a Presidents Hand — Done
Shake a Vice Presidents Hand — Done
Handle clean-up duties in the middle-east after the first Gulf-War – Done
At the age of 20 drive across the United States – Done
Spend more than 12 hours in an airplane – Done
Live in Okinawa, Japan – Done
Visit Ireland – Done
Visit France – Done
Visit Italy – Done
See what past generations went through during WWII – Done
Snorkel in the Yellow Sea — Done
Visit Thailand – Done
Visit Australia – Done
Ask your high-school sweetheart to marry you – Done
Fly around the world – twice – Done
Witness the birth of a child – Done
Settle down and have kids – Done
Read a goodnight story to your son/daughter – Done
Live in Phoenix – Done
Watch a child take their first steps – Done
Experience a NASCAR race with your son – Done
Catch a baseball game at Bank One Ballpark – Done
Fall in love with a Baseball team – Done
Talk to Garth Brooks for 45 minutes as if you were friends – Done
Drive the ALCAN Highway in the winter – Done
Spend Five days in Fort Saint John Canada – Done
Live in Alaska – Done
Fly Fish in the most beautiful place on earth — Done
Watch a black bear fish beside you — Done
Halibut fish in Prince William Sound — Done
Walk on a Glacier — Done
Fly an F-16 – Done
Visit Guam – Done
Visit Afghanistan/Iraq – Done
Visit Qatar – Done
Watch your son swing a baseball bat for the first time – Done
Live in California – Done
Forget your wife’s birthday – Done (Not Recommended)
Coach your kid’s baseball team – Done
Be the President of a Little League program – Done
Watch your kids excel at life – Done
Visit everything California has to offer – Done
Become friends with amazing people – Done
Meet Albert Pujols – Done
Catch a baseball game at AT&T Park – Done
Catch a baseball game at The Coliseum – Done
Catch a baseball game at PETCO Park – Done
Watch your favorite college football team play in a bowl game – Done
Experience California from a bicycle seat – Done
Experience a NASCAR race with your whole family from a Suite – Done
Sit next to Tom Cruise – Done (should be stated he was in the next Suite over, close enough)
Watch your kids get Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes Autograph – Done
Experience Loss – Done
Live in Seattle (Puyallup) — Done
Leave your family all on their own in a strange place – done
Move to Korea – but don’t take your family with you – done
Cycle across Korea – Done
Experience the joy in coming home to your family after a year away – Done
Teach your son how to drive – Done
Watch your son/daughters accomplish something they didn’t think they could – Done
Be married to the most amazing women you know………. — Done
Fall asleep at night thinking you’re the luckiest dad on earth – Done
I came to one conclusion in writing my “Completed Bucket-list” that conclusion being: I don’t need a damn “bucket-list”. I have already done, seen and experienced more than most people ever will and I already have everything I need. What started out as a simple question pertaining to something entirely different, left me realizing just how lucky I really am.










